Today most young children can play games of pc. ( personal computer ). In my case I played outside more than inside the house. Till primary age we lived in a place where there was a river. I could cat
マレーシアから日本にやってきた主婦の日本奮闘記
35年も前に日本にやってきたのですが、いまだに新発見ばっかり、戸惑いつつも、明るさとガッツで生き抜いています。
Since I live far away and more over I am working I can't attend your important day. Brother here I would like to apologize to you. Surely you fiorgive me. Brother Tong Wai. Sorry , I can't attend the
In those days Japanese ate more rice to bread. Japanese breakfast usually goes with miso soup, a raw egg, a pack of dried seaweed, grilled fish and a bowl of rice with pickles. As for me I prefer bre
Forget and keep old good memories.
Recently I lost two important things. One was our dog Kojiro and my younger brother. Even today I visit Kojiro place if I feel lonely. Now I am back to normal life after 6 months had passed. I said to
I decided to get together at least once a year. The Japanese rooms are smaller so we have no rooms to invite guests. Moreover we are busy everyday. Getting together in a restaurant maybe a good idea.
How nice to be greeted Happy Birthday. I felt comfortable. 3 or 4 years ago, my life was just dark and I had to be careful not to be infected by virus of Corona. Finally it was announced that today Co
We need something to be healed.
I am lucky to be healed by many things. Firstly listening to Teochew Opera. Going singing and our dog Kojiro. Lately I don't go singing but I go to arcade. You may thing I am silly but I can be refres
In those days, the company of men's bosses usually were the newly wed couples match makers. In our case my hubby's cousin couple were our match makers. A week ago the wife of cousin passed away. 20 ye
When babies sleeps, sometimes they were surprised that's why young mothers put a light pillow on the chest for the babies to hold. From there long pillows were used even for adults when they sleep. Th
I had two brothers and two sisters. When we got together we could feel happy, joke and so on. Few years ago I lost older brother and two weeks ago I lost our younger brother. Now I have only two older
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Today most young children can play games of pc. ( personal computer ). In my case I played outside more than inside the house. Till primary age we lived in a place where there was a river. I could cat
Ingredients. A pack of steak beef, an egg, breadcrumbs, flour and oil and hand made sauce. (half onion, ketchup and mayonnaise and red wine) Cut the beef into small size. Hit the beef using the blunt
In my hometown JB. we have goreng pisang for breakfast. All you have to prepare is 4 bananas, half cup of flour and one third of sugar. Prepare a bowl. Peel 4 bananas and mash them. Add in flour and s
I once checked in a clinic what causes me, running nose, sneezing and so on. I was said house dust, cedar and pollen caused me and every year between Wnter and Spring I was very careful to get eye dro
April is the best month to start new things in Japan. If I were to be asked, I would answer, I want to write a book of my life. I want to leave it for my decendants to know where I was born, how I was
Buy a pack of dry mushroom. Prepare a medium size saucepan. Open the pack of 10 mushrooms. Fill up the pan with water. Keep boiling until the water becomes one third of the pan. Stop the heat. Drink o
Ingredients, 2 eggplants, 100 gram of minced meat, one tablespoon of cornstarch and seasoning. Wash eggplants. Cut the top of egg plant and cut into half and then cut into 4 long pieces. Prepare a sa
In Japan fiscal year starts on first of April. All new employees of all kinds of jobs start on this day. I believe all new workers are nervous. Hope they get used to their new lives soon.
Ingredients, 200grams minced meat( mixed beef and pork) half onion, 5 big sheets of cabbages and one cube of kosome and a little salt. Cut the hard part of cabbages. Boil them for a short time. Put th
The school system over here in Japan is 6 years in Elementary, 3 years in Junior and 3 years in Senior High School. In those days many students would graduate and start working. or entered Junior Col
Last Sunday we had a holiday so we decided to visit our sisters-in-law. My husband has two sisters. They live near each other. Firstly we visited the first sister--in-law. She lives alone and she has
Ingredients, 2 slices of bread. An egg, half cup of milk. Prepare a bowl. Cut the side of bread. Cut into two. Pour the milk in the bowl. Break the egg in the bowl. Beat it up. Add in the bread. Prepa
From there we started to exchange both cultures between Japan and Malaysia. We also exchanged photos. In those days we wrote by hands and letters. Whenever I received the letter from my pen pal I repl
From there we started to exchange both cultures between Japan and Malaysia. We also exchanged photos. In those days we wrote by hands and letters. Whenever I received the letter from my pen pal I repl
One day one of my friends gave me an address of a Japanese guy. He said if you would like to know the culture and customs more you could be a friend of him. I was very happy to get the address from my
My friend had so many friends because she published on a column, she welcomed friends who wanted to correspond with her. She passed me a friend who lived quite near to my hometown. We started to corre
I was very interested in exchanging cultures with foreigners. I belonged to the correspondence club in school days. I requested someone and they introduced a girl who lived in New Zealand. She lived i
When I first came to Japan I had no friends. I tried to make friends because friends are best friends if we are in need. One day when my children started to go to kindergarten I had a good friend. My
What on earth has the world changed? In those days when I was a young child, our family back home usually gathered in the living room and our family always chatted. See today even young kids are busy
Whenever I am free, I would like to visit him. Maybe he was too close to me. Time flies, Kojiro had passed away for nearly a year. Actually he passed away in December. Now I can imagine him when I clo
When having meals, they say itadakimasu and after finishing meals they say gochisosama. When someone is going out he says itekimasu and the family member says okairi. When passing owners stores the
The first thing that healed me was the Teochew Opera. Next was my favorite singer of Terasa Teng, Our dogs Potato and Kojiro. I used to go to a Karaoke for singing but now I don't feel fun. The last b
May 7 th is Mother's Day. Women are very strong. I really appreciated my mother and mother-in-law. If they had not been in this world, we wouldn't have been born. Both mother's characters are calm and
For girls we have Hina dolls festivals . It is on March 3rd. In those days and even now parents of wives side give a set of Hina dolls. Most families decorate them in tokonoma ( tatami room ) and they
There was a merit if you were a foreigner in Japan. By the name of Tan Lan Kwee, I was asked to be a one day nurse, I was asked to teach some games to children what I played in my childhood, I was ask
Parents back home were strict because they wanted their children to behave well. My memory of my father was he used flip flop to hit my legs if I behaved badly and my mother would use canes to hit me.
I commute to work by train everyday. I am curious at people in the train. Everyone is looking at the cell phones. In my case I decided not to do anything when I am with my hubby. In those days especia
Since we got married I usually serve my husband everything. I have been doing all these like preparing meals, getting seasoning he wants and clearing the table of what he uses for years. Maybe not onl
Yesterday it rained the whole day. I am afraid the petals of Sakura will be blown away. After all it bloomed so beautifully. In those days when my father-in -law saw the Sakura he said, Could I see it
Every year I was introduced to the new students at the opening ceremony. I always prepare a short speech. At first I was going to say Congratulations. Welcome to the hairstylist institute. Let's enjoy
We have an old saying. Maybe it is a kind of superstition but it is true. If we were given 2 presents there would be the third one. One day our daughter gave me a tablet of pc. Next a stuffed animal l
In my Secondary years in school I joined an activity. What made me join it? It was the uniform and beret cap with a badge of Red Crescent . In those days we called Red Cross. I studied how to apply fi
Many families are visiting their families' graves. According to the lunar calendar this coming Sunday is the day where many families visit the graves once in a year. Over here we can visit anytime we
In foreign countries, they use the year like 2023. Over here we use both like Japanese and English year. Now we use Reiwa 5 or 2023. In those days we had Showa, Heisei and now Reiwa. I came to Japan i
When my mother enrolled me in my school I was pretty happy. In my primary first grade she bought new text books, a brief bag, a small black board and a box of chalk for writing. I usually hung on the
As I know my husband like the concert I requested him to see again. Actually the concert was held from April 18 th to 23rd. Since 21st was a public holiday both of us went to see again. The seats for
Last Sunday my husband and I went to see a concert. After the concert we had dinner at a restaurant. Since Corona we had to be careful not to be infected. For these 3 or 4 years we stayed home except
Finally the concert of our favorite singer appeared on stage. Actually my husband has been looking forward to seeing his concert. I usually followed him and I also become one of his fans. During Coron
Yesterday my husband and I visited a city hall for some reasons. If we drove there the place would be easy to get there but we took a train. We had to change to another train. It was quite a complicat
Since I was young my eye sight was pretty good. People said if your eye sight was too good you would be far sighted at a younger age. That's right. I became far sighted in my early age. One day I happ